By KEVIN NEVERS
A surge in suicides this year in Porter County is prompting Coroner Vicki
Deppe to urge persons considering suicide to seek professional help
immediately. Deppe is also urging the family and friends of the possibly
suicidal to know the warning signs and not to hesitate to intervene.
Deppe told the Chesterton Tribune on Thursday that it would be
incorrect to call this year’s spike in suicides an epidemic. The prevalence
of suicide, like that of fatal motor vehicle accidents, fluctuates every
year for reasons which are never knowable, she said, and sharp rises or
dips, especially over relatively short periods of time, have something of
the fluky about them.
“It’s up and then it’s down,” Deppe said. “Suicides were high in 2007 but
went down in 2008. And now they’re way up. You can never really figure out
why the suicide rate changes from year to year.”
This much is clear. Twenty-two suicides have been recorded in Porter County
through June 12, compared to only 15 in all of 2008 and 29 in 2007, the
latter total the most recorded in the last 14 years. Over the last 13 years
Porter County has averaged 19 suicides per year.
Seven of the 22 suicides--fully 32 percent--have occurred in Duneland. Six
of them--22 percent--occurred in May, with five in a 10-day span that month.
Fifteen of the suicides--68 percent--were by gunshot; two by motor vehicle
accident; two by carbon monoxide poisoning; and one each by hanging, drug
poisoning, and drug toxicity. The vast majority of the victims have been
male: 17 or 77 percent.
As Deppe noted, “the ages are all over the place,” although the victims have
tended to be past middle age, with nine or 41 percent of them aged 55 or
older. The youngest was a 16-year-old boy; the oldest, two 66-year-old men.
Two were aged 18-24; three, 25-34; three, 35-44; and five, 45-54.
In short, the victims have tended to be older men who used firearms. But
their motivations, so far as Deppe has been able to determine, have been
personal and unique. “People say it’s the economy but we dig into these very
deeply and there is no common thread,” she said. “In some cases it appears
that the overriding factor was business-related. But in none of them has
there been just a single factor. Some have had relationship problems or
trouble at work or they’ve been chronically depressed.”
All of the victims have been linked in one particular way, however. “When we
ask whether the victims have sought help, whether they were on
anti-depressants, whether they were seeing a therapist, the answer has been
No,” Deppe said. “People aren’t getting help, and that’s what scares
me. We’ve been told by survivors that the victims seemed much better in the
last week or so. That’s because they made a decision.”
“I spend a lot of time talking to the families after the fact,” Deppe added.
“I encourage the survivors to seek counseling. Once one person in a family
commits suicide, then it becomes a viable option.”
Warning Signs
Deppe is encouraging folks to learn to recognize the warning signs of
suicide. From the website of the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at
www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org
*Threatening to hurt or kill oneself or talking about wanting to hurt or
kill oneself.
*Looking for ways to kill oneself by seeking access to firearms, available
pills, or other means.
*Talking or writing about death, dying, or suicide when these actions are
out of the ordinary for the person.
*Acting recklessly or engaging in risky activities, seemingly without
thinking.
*Feeling trapped, as though there
’s no way out.
*Increasing alcohol or drug use.
*Withdrawing from family, friends, or society.
*Feeling anxious, agitated, or unable to sleep or sleeping all the time.
*Experiencing dramatic mood changes.
*Seeing no reason for living or having no sense of purpose in life.
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline has these tips for the family and
friends of the possibly suicidal:
*Be direct. Talk openly and matter-of-factly about suicide.
*Be willing to listen. Allow expressions of feelings. Accept the feelings.
*Be non-judgmental. Don
’t debate whether suicide is
right or wrong, or whether feelings are good or bad. Don’t lecture on the
value of life.
*Get involved. Become available. Show interest and support.
*Don
’t dare him or her to do it.
*Don
’t act shocked. This will put distance between
you.
*Don
’t be sworn to secrecy. Seek support.
*Offer hope that alternatives are available but do not offer glib
reassurance.
*Take action. Remove means, such guns or stockpiled pills.
*Get help from persons or agencies specializing in crisis intervention and
suicide prevention.
Hotline Numbers
Persons considering suicide--or who know someone considering suicide--can
seek immediate help from the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at (800)
273-8255, a toll-free confidential 24-hour hotline available to anyone in
suicidal crisis or emotional distress. Your call will be routed to the
nearest crisis center to you.
Or call the United States National Suicide & Crisis Hotline at (800)
784-2433.
Posted 6/19/2009